Death: Transformation and Change

Transformation and Change

 

"Endings are beginnings; even though we may not realize it at the time."

Not surprising with the planet Pluto in retrograde motion, the Death card appears more frequently in tarot card readings.  When this card appears in a reading, most clients immediately think "death" awaits--fearing a physical death of a loved one!  

The image of Death charging across a field on his spectral steed would strike fear into the heart of almost any person. The appearance of the Death card has a similar effect on most people, though it really should not. The appearance of the tarot card Death does not necessarily, or even usually, indicate physical death. In fact, in general, it is considered irresponsible for readers to predict physical death, as we are creatures with free will, and such things are not written in stone. The Death card is not a card of death - it is a card of transformation and change.

This is definitely a time of deep transformation, likely to be both inner and outwardly in your life. Situations, things, and people that you have counted on or gotten used to may no longer be available to you in quite the same way as they once were, and this transition can be difficult for some people.

The more accepting you can be of change of all sorts during this time, and the less you try to "control" the better and the more comfortable this time will be for you. Often what you need to "let go of" is some sort of self-limiting belief or attitude. Sometimes we just can't see how our attitudes are hurting us, and when that is true, this time period can be a wake-up call. The energy of this time is not just change or destruction; it is change or destruction followed by renewal. Even though one door may have closed, another is opening. Will you have the courage to step through?

The best advice when faced with such transformation or change in your life is to cultivate a positive attitude. Know that even if you are in the midst of a "dark night of the soul" that this too shall pass. Don't fight change. Allow yourself to feel what you feel, but don't wallow in pain or sorrow; if you need help pulling yourself away from any pain or loss that you are suffering, reach out. There is always a caring soul who will help you, even if you are quite literally alone in the world; more people care about you than you can even begin to imagine.


Melody "Lil Mel"  McGowan
Life Coach, Author, & Professional Advisor
Let Your Heart Heal Life Coaching
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Four of Cups: Count Your Blessings!

The Four of Cups is a card about wishful thinking. Reminds us to pay attention to what 

"is" now, and the many blessings we have, 

and not to worry too much about "what could be."

Did you know the 4 of cups in Tarot card reading can inform you what opportunity you are not looking at?  I have a passion for the Tarot, and using specific cards to obtain information for others or myself.  In a tarot card reading, the Four of Cups appears in a reading  when you are bored or dissatisfied with the status quo. You may be feeling disengaged, apathetic, or unmotivated. Life has become stale or ‘flat’ and there is little that excites you anymore. 

The Four of Cups depicts a young man sitting under a tree far away from others in what looks like deep contemplation and meditation. In fact, he is so engrossed in deep contemplation that he does not appear to notice the cup being presented to him by an outstretched arm. A further three cups stand at his feet, symbolizing the world and its attractions but again, he pays little attention to these. 

Sometimes, we get so stuck in the idea that we don’t know what we should do. So what do we do? Often, we do nothing. Rather than find the energy to do something, we just sit and ponder all the things we should be doing. Do we do them, or do we just sit and ponder them? It’s a rather silly endeavor, but it is something each of us does from time to time. This is another way to define procrastination. If you know you need to do something, get up and do it! Thinking about it is not the same as doing it, so quit thinking, and do!

The Four of Cups serves as a reminder not to take life for granted. Be sure that you are "counting your blessings."  Don't spend too much time in self-pity or wishing your life away. 

Wishful thinking can take it's toll on the spiritual aspect of life, as when we are caught up in "poor me" thinking or "I wish things were different," it tends to blind us to the beauty of what IS in our lives, right now. Stay constant and grounded in the present moment. If you can't keep a "gratitude journal" and write down things you feel grateful for every day, at least make a list of twenty people/situations/things in your life that you are grateful for now. Thinking along these lines can elevate your "spiritual mindset" immensely, and quickly. A lot of life has to do with where we put our focus. Put your focus on the things and people in your life that you have to be thankful for.


Melody "Lil Mel"  McGowan
Life Coach, Author, & Professional Advisor
Let Your Heart Heal Life Coaching
(888) 626-7386 ext. 13152
http://www.lilmel.com
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