Happy National Singles Week!

"Peaceful solitude is much better than chaotic company."

While there are Pro & Cons for living life as a single person, this week is dedicated to embracing the joys & perks of being single!  

Here's what I have learned about being single....

• Being single as given me more time to focus on myself & discover who "I" am.  The chance to reflect, reconnect, and rediscover what makes me happy.  Because I spend a lot of time by myself, I really do know "Me" and what makes me tick! 

• Being single has brought me closer to my family & good friends.  Living alone does not mean you have to be lonely.  I am lucky to have such wonderful and supportive adult children that enjoy spending time together doing family activities.  I am grateful for the close friendships I have made over the years. Whether my seasoned friendships, newly developed, on-line, off-line, or those yet to be, I appreciate the flavor, color, and warmth each one brings into my life.   

• Being single has helped me to step outside my comfort zone & explore places, ideas, & activities I may not have as part of a couple.  

• Being single allows me to do things around the house in the nude--cook, clean, laundry, etc just because I can!  

• Being single means my time and money is my own.  I can spend it however I want.  I love having the option to indulge in whatever suits me for the moment--arts, theater, voluntarism, hobbies, travel, and pastimes that I can spend as much or as little time doing; sleeping in, going out, staying in, or hanging out in my PJs all day...whatever I want to do. 

• Being single means my home is just the way I want it to be.  I don't have to pick up after another person.  I don't mind my pets on the furniture or sleeping in the bed with me.  I have complete control over the remote.  It's perfectly fine to spend an evening curled up with my fur-babies watching classic movies or cartoons if I feel like it.  

• Being single gives me the option to say, "it's been a nice evening but it's time for you to go now"  and "yes, I would like you to stay".  It's totally up to me.  

Bottom line, being fabulously single and happy is about being happy with yourself!  It's about being comfortable in your own skin.  It's about being happy, period!  Being single doesn't have to mean being afraid to love.  Trust me, my heart has experienced bumps, bruises, and been broken a few times in my life.  Being single as taught me not to live my life as a traumatized victim of failed relationships.  Perhaps the next person will treat my heart with kindness, love, & respect.  Staying open to love isn't about attracting a new relationship, it's about been open to living life! 

So...singles, what is your attitude about being single?  


Melody "Lil Mel" McGowan
Life Coach, Author, & Professional Advisor
Let Your Heart Heal Life Coaching
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Doing the Right Thing

"Do the right thing simply because it is the right thing to do. Keep your promises, complete a job, and accept financial responsibility, even when no one is checking up on you. Be honest in your words and actions." ~Melody~

I am Available For Voice or Chat today (9/16) from 8:00 am - 4:00 pm CST!!

As always, keeping it short, and to the point! 10 Minutes may be all you need-voice or chat. Advisor Lil Mel specializes in peeling back the layers to read "how they feel", "when it will happen", and reads for what you can expect to see happen within the next few days out to 6 months.
Have a Wonderful Monday!

Melody "Lil Mel" McGowan
Life Coach, Author, &; Professional Advisor
Let Your Heart Heal Life Coaching
(888) 626-7386 ext. 13152
http://www.lilmel.com
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Happy New Moon in Virgo!!

Virgo NEW MOON is here! Virgo, the sign of healing and service, provides us with the strength and support to do the internal work necessary for self-healing.  For those who have been going through some deep shifts, internal processing of things from the past, shedding that which has held us captive, we are learning to know and remember who we really are. It is time to be who we are, and tune in to how we can serve. 

This Virgo New Moon opens us to planting the seed of our wholeness--both the perfected parts that the sign Virgo strives for and the wounded parts we are healing. Virgo is the perfect sign for quality control, it does not take short cuts. It is the analyzer, the thinking sign; picking apart & analyzing each kernel of information available, drawing logical conclusions from deluge of information. 

Virgo reflects back to what is toxic, dirty, shameful, hidden away; that which causes malfunction and dysfunction. Make a list of what needs to be reviewed for self-improvement, BUT, be patient with yourself! Forgive yourself where you have fallen short of your own standards--you are a work in progress! 

Some suggestions for using this New Moon in Virgo energy: start a new health regiment, cut out something unhealthy from your diet, sign up for yoga or meditation classes, find ways to be of service to others, clean out closet, desk, car, etc., discard that which no longer serves your life.   Re-balance yourself!

As a reminder, I also do private, one-on-one consultations via phone and chat. You can either contact me via the Talk/Chat Now buttons on this page or set up a prepaid appointment time. Simply go my Let Your Heart Heal page to purchase and book your session. Check out my testimonials and FAQ to learn more about what I do. Looking forward to hearing from you!


Melody "Lil Mel" McGowan
Life Coach, Author, &; Professional Advisor
Let Your Heart Heal Life Coaching
(888) 626-7386 ext. 13152
http://www.lilmel.com
https://www.facebook.com/AdvisorLilMel
http://advisorlilmel.blogspot.com/