Sunday, February 17, 2013

Speak Kind Words

"Speak kindly to yourself and others, 
using words of compassion to create a loving energy."

The spoken word is extremely powerful!  It can make us, break us, hurt others or heal others.  Think before you speak!  Literally bite your tongue if necessary.  Once blurted out, you can not take your words back.  They sting, they can destroy.  Destroy a person's self esteem and self worth.  Unkind words can create hate and malice.  Cynicism is destructive.  Today, focus on the energy of kindness with each word that you speak. 

Your words are your thoughts broadcast-ed from your soul.  Use words of compassion to create an energy that is uplifting and nurturing.  When you speak kind words you are connecting two hearts; yours and the receiver.  Be aware of not other what you say but how you say it.  Be a source of encouragement to others.  If you speak kind words of praise about others, they will speak kind word about you.  

Melody "Lil Mel"  McGowan
Life Coach, Author, & Professional Adviser
Let Your Heart Heal Life Coaching 
 (888) 626-7386 ext. 13152
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Friday, February 15, 2013

De-Clutter Your Life



Is your car junky?  Are your closets a wreck? Does your desk look like a war zone?  Take the time to inspect your surroundings.  Look at your car, your house, and your desk.  Organizing is a way of gathering your thoughts so that you have less stress finding important papers, clothes to wear, or fixing yourself a meal. You can feel the difference in your energy flow when you are in a clean area versus a messy one. 

If you don't know what you have, then clearly you are not attached to it and you can get rid of it.  If you haven't used something in two years, chances are you are not going to use it.  If you have had it longer than two years, it is probably out of style anyway.  Secondly, if you are simply hoarding things, make no mistake you are creating stagnant energy in your space are blocking blessings and prosperity from coming into your life.  Think about it, energy flows through physical structures similar to the flow of water or air.  When you have so much stuff cluttering up your environment, that flow is obstructed.  

Today is a perfect day to de-clutter your life.  It's time to clean out that closet, straighten your work area, donate unwanted or unused items, or hold a garage sale.  De-cluttering your life, even in small ways, will make room for more energy flow and as that energy increases, you will find you have more blessings and prosperity in your life.  

Melody "Lil Mel"  McGowan
Life Coach, Author, & Professional Adviser
Let Your Heart Heal Life Coaching 
 (888) 626-7386 ext. 13152
http://www.lilmel.com
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Monday, February 11, 2013

Venus Square Saturn--Doesn't have to suck!

This Monday morning starts off with Venus Squaring Saturn transit.  Respect the solitary joy that is available-perhaps from the friendship of one person or simply in the company of yourself. Sometimes alone or isolated-even in the midst of people-you can struggle to enjoy the day. Responsibilities can limit the fun, and you may have to choose between duty and pleasure. Although appreciation may be lacking, look to the people and things that you can count on to see you through any temporary or long-term difficulty. Focus on one thing that will make you happy today and make it happen. The type of attitude you carry depends on you--make it positive one! 



Positive thoughts have a filling effect.  They are invigorating!  Plus the people around you are energized by this type of attitude.  A positive mind set promotes relaxation, clear thinking, and reduces stress.  Vow to keep a positive attitude today no matter what.  To promote a positive attitude you could watch a funny movie, play with pets or children, or spend time reading an uplifting book!  All these activities fill you will positive stimuli.  Although it is impossible to avoid the influence of this transit--you can let it pass without affecting your positive attitude! 

Need a pick me up? Someone to point out the positive? Help you see what's around the corner? Drop me a line--I will be available today for voice or chat.



Melody "Lil Mel"  McGowan
Life Coach, Author, & Professional Adviser
Let Your Heart Heal Life Coaching 
 (888) 626-7386 ext. 13152
http://www.lilmel.com
https://www.facebook.com/AdvisorLilMel